I am a dad again

[Mentalkase]

I just called my father in law this morning to find out what the progress is on my wifes pregnancy.He informed me my son was born about 10 days ago.

10 days ago,and my wife did not even bother to contact me about it.He told me she said that since I never replied to an email she sent about 3 months ago,she wasn't going to bother contacting me now.

What kind of selfish,irresponsible,childishness is that?How hateful can a person be to another,to not even let her husband know he has a new son.I sat here all day on Fathers day watching tv when I got back from church.My oldest son is in Az right now,and I couldn't reach him to talk to him,and my wife,not ex wife,but wife didn't even contact me to let me know I have a new son.

I am so frustrated right now.I sent her an email this morning,since that is the only way she will have anything to do with me,but have not heard back from her yet.I honestly don't expect to until Sunday night when it is too late for me to go see him,and since I can't afford to skip a day of work,I will have to wait yet another week.

The sad part is,she left in January because she claims I am abusive.All because I actually expected her to tell me when she spent money,and expected her son to show respect and not physically abuse my oldest son.On top of that,I refused to quit my job as a mechanic because she was embarrassed by it.

Some people in this world just blow my freakin mind.

Please keep this whole situation in your prayers.Prefferably for a restoration of marriage,or that if we go to court,that the type of person she is will be exposed to the Judge.And my sanity as well.

[Freedster]

I wish you good luck getting these issues resolved. I hope she sees the light and lets you have liberal contact with your son.

- Freed

[nailheadina67]

Is your ex-wife my ex-wifes clone? Mine was ashamed of my being a mechanic also.............I was also accused of physical abuse.........could this be a pattern with disgruntled women? No, women aren't like that, just ask any Judge! They know us me are all cheating, drunk, abusive child hating scumbags. :rolleyes:

You are so better off without her. As for what she is doing to you using your son, just remember this.......what goes around, comes around. :spank:

[Mentalkase]

Well,my wife finally called me last night about our son.

His name is Benjamin Joseph
He was born June 16 6:32 P.M.
Dark Brown hair
Blue eyes
20 in long
8 1/2 pounds

I am going to go see him tonight after I get off work.

I was quite surprised she called,I was expecting her to email me.Although I probably surprised her when I agreed to come over tonight.I know she was expecting me to say that I couldn't because of work.But I am not going to wait another five days to ee my son.

Please pray that everything goes well tonight.I will post how everything went when I get home.

[Mentalkase]

Well,everything went good tonight.I saw and held my son for about an hour.I could have held him for a week without setting him down.God I wish that my wife would have let me be a part of the pregnancy and birth.

Anyway,He is a gorgeous baby,of course I am biased.I will be seeing him again on Sat.Hopefully for quite a bit longer than just an hour or so.

Thank you God for this honor of raising another one of your children.

Thanks for those who prayed,I know they helped out a lot this evening.My wife was very polite,and her sister was polite also.Considering the last I heard from either of them,they basically acted like they wished I was dead.

Please continue to keep all of us in your prayers.