So..cut thru the chase here,we have a rental house,interview people,wife said shes tired & her arm hurts...get thru that (2 hrs)ok,lets's go home(she didnt sleep well,and somethings wrong....jaw hurts.We get home & she tells me she has had the pains...Hospital faster than you can believeou: She has been having these for 3 THREE weeks,without telling me!!!ou: I lost another friend last month,3 weeks of not telling,arm pain,he dropped on the way to the car to get help,while pulling his coat on,Frikin,down,frikin dead...thats all i could think about.Thank the lord she is OK for now.The ER doctor found a murmour,follow-up tomorrow.You know i'm not a religous guy,but i thanked god we walked in & out of that E.R.Please keep her in your thoughts & prayers,if you would like to pray,please do,her name is Dena...best thing ive ever had in my life
Sounds like a close call. Glad that she told you and you got her in to the doctor. We'll all hope for the best outcome.
What bothered me is she was afraid to tell me,like i would be upset.Damn,i have panic attack chest pains from time to time & tell her so she knows whats going on.BTW,the er doctor was a cute little chickp Sorry,just my way of dealing with this,u guys help:laugh:
I was just talking to a friend about that tonight-- First, I'm glad Dena is OK. You totally did the right thing by going to get it checked out.
Women can be funny like that. My wife will complain about every sniffle, ache and pain, but one time we were at an air show. All was good, it was a fairly hot day. Then my wife tells me she doesn't feel good. By the time she says anything, she damn near ended up in the hospital. She didn't want to say anything because she didn't want me to miss the air show. She figured I would be upset. If she would have said something an hour sooner I could have gotten a ton of water into her and gotten her in the shade. She was sick for at least a couple days after that. I remember how bad a person can get from the sun from basic training. It's bad stuff. Lets hope that everything comes out fine, and that there is a lesson learned about letting you know what's going on.
Prayers on the way. Good thing the murmur was spotted, they usually are hard to spot, unless the person is under a lot of stress, or the heart is being overworked! Nothin like a good woman to keep you on your toes!!
Last August my X wife was not feeling good and didn't tell anyone.Thank goodness the 6 year old grandson picked up on it and told Eli(son)that Grandma was "sick".Eli rushed her to the hospital where they found she had a heart attack.They put a stent in one vessel.Now she is taking tests to see if she needs a pace maker.Jamie my thoughts are with you and Dena.Take Care!!!! Keith
short up-date,Dena is in good spirits.:TU: But she still needs to follow-up,and that scaring her.She MIGHT need suregey.Crap,if i loose this woman.....i might as well die.She means everything to me. Thank you alll
