Oh I appreciate the companionship,...and all the comfort that comes with it,..WHEN it's the majority and not the few,....that's where it had gone lots of resentment over absolutely ludicrous things that just wouldn't go away,...it was more like a prison most times,... granted we we're not the best match,...and her upbringing vs mine was totally different and being from OH and me the deep south,..we just didn't communicate the same but regardless something would have to fall out of the sky and check EVERY SINGLE BOX before I try again for anything long term
Well, never forget all woman are at least a 4 crazy.. so you have to learn to let the crazy roll off your back.. I find that developing selective hearing has helped with that. JW
Jim my experience has been with a 8 crazy and 8hot,....had I only had a 4,.5 or even a 6 would have been no problem haha there were other issues that were more serious that really pulled the trigger for the final time
8 crazy and 8 hot? There is a reason they call that the Danger Zone.. no wonder your balls are in a sling.. JW
Fellas I'm telling you I would sleep with one eye open sometimes haha,...she could be the best you could ask for for a day,..or for 30min you never knew,...I was on pins and needles waiting for the next explosion,....that's not the life I want hell who would,..I miss the hell out her regardless,..but not enough to make amends,...it's someone else's chance
Ya got it all right Jim. I was married for a long time, and had a life that some would envy. I remember hiking in the Swiss Alps, Visiting the Cliffs of Moher, Cruising the Panama Canal, Visiting the Grand Canyon, Flying over the top of Mt. Washington in our own light plane, Swimming on the South side of Martha's Vineyard about 150 yards from Katama Airport where our airplane was parked, going out for Ice Cream in our Model T, with our Shepherd Tala, visiting Denali National Park, it goes on. I wouldn't have missed a minute of it. BTW: The bride was one of a handful of people that I have met who has personally witnessed a Nuclear explosion. I miss her.
My brother is having a great time being single, does what he wants when he wants and even bitches at me when I want him to be with us at the party and says I do what I want and I applaud him for that. He rides his Harley and works on his Procharged Mustang he has been married twice he is done with women and has been the last 15 years now, he says they all nuts and I have to agree they wacky, been with mine for 25+ and not married but may change that since we are in retirement as mine is Jan.
Sounds like a GOOD plan Hugger!! Something I always thought of...... too late now for me!! LOL! Just think about it...............when you get it all done and take over SRE, you can be building OIL PANS while watching racing on TV!! LOL
Seen an incredibly hot early 30s walking out of Walgreens almost went into action,...but stopped myself haha,...gotta focus on the goal,...damn yoga pants,..get me every time
You want to start talking "pre-nuptial" as soon as it seems things are getting serious. Sometimes all that stands between staying together and divorce is a simple sheet of paper. Do this if you own anything of value that was yours before you get married. If you have to compromise so should the other person but do not compromise anything that you owned before your marriage. Know that staying together for more than a few years requires some compromise. Try to avoid passing up a great relationship because of something that you can compromise on. I married for "love", I now know you need more than "love" to keep a relationship afloat. But I did have her agree that I get to keep anything I brought into the marriage. At your age, single with no kids and employed is very attractive so know you already have a lot going for you. It's also a HUGE help to marry into a good family. If your new partner has more in assets than you, talk with them about "buying you out" as opposed to sharing debt. Meaning if you do own anything that has value, let them buy it from you as opposed to fighting over who owns what. Lastly, know that neither emotional or sexual abandonment are fair in a relationship and can be considered grounds for divorce in most states. You do not have to get married to be close with someone for life and you do not have to be alone if you live alone.
Sitting here with my dog watching this goober try like no other on this date he's on ,..I'm like dude she doesn't wanna hear your **** man,....move over let me handle this haha
